Healthy boundaries are not just about knowing when to say yes or no. They begin with what is happening in the heart.
In this episode of He Sees You, Dr. Lana Lyman continues through the Ten Laws of Boundaries with the Laws of Motivation, Evaluation, Proactivity, and Envy. She explores why boundaries should never become weapons, why another person’s reaction cannot determine whether a boundary is healthy, and how resentment can sometimes signal that something needs attention before a relationship reaches a breaking point.
Dr. Lana also looks at comparison and envy as invitations to turn attention back toward personal growth, stewardship, and what God is developing within.
Healthy boundaries are not ultimately about changing someone else. They are part of becoming healthier ourselves.
What is God trying to grow in you right now?
Up Next in Season 1
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Ep. 7 - What You Can and Cannot Control
Trying to control what was never yours to control is exhausting.
In this episode of He Sees You, Dr. Lana Lyman continues the conversation on boundaries with the Law of Power and the Law of Respect. She explores the difference between helplessness and powerlessness, why surrender is not weakness,... -
Ep. 6 - You’re Responsible to People,...
Caring about someone does not mean carrying responsibility for everything they do.
In this episode of *He Sees You*, Dr. Lana Lyman continues the conversation on boundaries with the Law of Responsibility and a distinction that can change the way relationships feel: you are responsible **to** peo...
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Ep. 5 - When Helping Becomes Enabling
Sometimes love steps in too quickly.
In this episode of *He Sees You*, Dr. Lana Lyman continues the conversation on boundaries with the Law of Sowing and Reaping. She explores why consequences are not simply punishment, but often one of the ways people learn, grow, and finally face the reality o...
